"Being There" is both simple and profound. Simple, in that it applies the considerable experience and insights of the author to the basic affirmation of "The Healing Power of Presence" in the most ordinary of settings for the reader. Forster writes in a style that is accessible and understandable. He is practical and realistic. Profound, in that it addresses the challenges and opportunities of being those who are "good to have around in troubled times, even though (or maybe precisely because) they don't try to fix things but are simply there with us."
Forster draws upon his people-centred work in both health and church contexts and enables the reader to consider the qualities of presence, practical pitfalls and potential for good, and introduces counselling insights alongside Judaeo-Christian spirituality.
His use of a range of biblical material is creative and helpful. Forster uses each example as a framework or lens for careful attentive listening and reflection for others. His use of the Exodus - "crossing the sea" - for a realistic appraisal of the "long night of waiting" is really insightful. "The biggest challenge to Moses is not the sea, or the advancing forces of oppression, but the internal turmoil in the minds of the people". Forster is clearly someone who knows the reality of such turmoil in the minds of others. This book is a treasure for anyone wishing to "be there" for others.
